It’s a cycle. He hurts you but you always run back to him, but why?That’s the question. It can change throughout girls, some go back to the same guy that hurt them so many times because they feel like they can’t find someone better. Others go back to him because they think in some sort of way the guy has changed or he’s going to change, when the girl clearly knows he didn’t change and he honestly never will. The other girls go back to the guy because they think about all the memories and that’s what keeps them attached to the same guy that hurt them so many times. The main reason I think we go back to that person that hurt us so much as girls is because we made them a habit to us at some point in our life and it’s really hard to let go of that habit and start fresh with someone new. Also the fact with someone knew you don’t know what will happen in that relationship. There’s a thousand questions in your head like “what if something goes wrong? What if he hurts me more then the last one ? What if he’s actually good ?” Its hard going to someone new when you have someone that your already used to, that your comfortable with. That person that hurt you is your “comfort zone” as much as you hate to admit it. That new person though, you have no experience with, you have to take a really big risk by not knowing what will happen in that new relationship, it can go great or it can be worst then your past relationships. Point is we go back to that person that hurt us so much because we’re comfortable with them and were not so comfortable with that new person, even if that new person is better then the one that hurt us.